KiZend
Assistance for people who are temporarily stuck
Our life is a constant string of choices. From the moment we wake up to the moment we step in to bed we are constantly making choices. Most of those choices come easy. But sometimes we get stuck.
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Then it seems that there are either too many or too few choices. We sort of know what we want (we think) but how do we get it?
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KiZend specializes in assisting people who struggle with decision anxiety and/or approach of specific challenges.
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Decision anxiety can manifest itself in different ways:
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going around in circles between various options
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constantly starting new projects without finishing them
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outsourcing decisions to other people (family, friends, colleagues, ...
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flat out refusing to choose (and ending up doing none of the options)
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choosing the first best thing (to immediately regret the decision)
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following others in their choice (and wondering why you can't feel as excited about it as they do)
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Under the guidance of your mentor you will learn how to create clarity and tranquility in your mind by:
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researching and focussing on what you want
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finding the options that are relevant to your choice
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learning and training the method that matches with who you are
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Additionally we'll also tackle the practical side of things.
During specific targetted training sessions (workshops) and practical Do-activities you will develop skills that will serve you your entire life, including any potential future situation you may encounter.
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I can help you unblock yourself as your mentor and assistant in this process.
Sabine Dekie
Welcome! I'm glad you dropped by.
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Do you know the saying "To choose is to lose"?
Well, that's complete nonsense and I can very easily go on a tangent about that, but we're not going to do that here.
What we will do is find out how making the right choices for you does not lead to losing. On the contrary.
Using your current challenge you will learn how to make your choices in a more relaxed and less stressful manner. And yes, you can do this too. Only, it won't happen by itself. You will have to put in the work.
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But don't worry
You already have 1 big advantage that you didn't have yesterday. You don't have to do it alone.
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My Approach/Method:
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1. Mentor Program
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You will undergo a so-called Mentor Program with me in which I will combine the techniques from coaching, consulting and training. I will guide you through the process that will teach you how to handle decisionmaking in a way that is most suited for you and your situation.
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​Because every person is different, your method will not necessarily be the same as someone else's. I personalize my approach based on your situation, personality and the challenge you are currently facing.
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This is one of the reasons why a program has minimum 3 sessions. I have to get know you a little in order to be able to make that assessment and to customize your method. Additionally, the aim is for you to be able to make your choice at the end of the program or to be well underway to doing so. I don't want to send you home with an unfinished feeling.
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Clarity, decisiveness and peace. Those are the three things I want to send you home with.
You are also not the first ones to take this step. Read the experiences from other people to see what this has done for them.
Note: I've decided to respect their input in the form that it was submitted. You may need to run it through a translation program in order to understand it.
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Practical:
Sessions take 1h to 1h30
preferably offline (online is optional when needed)
Price: 50€ / session of 1h (75€ for 1,5h sessions)*
Practical arrangements are discussed and fixed during the intake talk.
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*Length of sessions are always decided by the mentee. Sometimes people choose 1,5 hour sessions as a standard. Sometimes they want to take advantage of a particularly productive session (being in flow). But it is always the client who decides.
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2. Workshops
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You follow practical training sessions around a specific topic in small groups.
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Drawing from my experience I will guide you and present one or multiple techniques and methods to deal with the problem at hand. You will practice that and this will start the process of unblocking your progress.
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Along the way you will discover which method or technique suits you best. You will develop skills that will enable you to adjust any of these techniques and methods to your personal style, personality, way of life and whatever needs you may have.
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I will challenge you and, from time to time, take you out of your comfort zone.
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Through the interaction with the group you will gain a multitude of perspectives and can exchange thoughts and suggestions with your workshop colleagues. In this way the workshop session will also become an interactive exchange and network event.
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Practical
Location: Ghent-Drongen-Deinze
Duration: min 2h - max 1 day (8h)
Price: depends on the type of workshop
Nr of participants: min 3 - max 10
